The day sheet
Two Portable Ramps Reach the Door. Compare the Setup Before You Choose One
The useful ramp is the one a named person can place, secure, remove, and store without leaving your wife waiting in the wheelchair.
A portable ramp may solve the step at your door. It may also add a new care job every time your wife leaves the house.
Local option: New Plan Care gives families in the St. Louis area in-home help so a parent can stay home: companionship, help with bathing and dressing, meals, and overnight care. Call (314) 405-0887.
Do not compare ramps only by length, weight, or the size printed on the box. Compare the whole trip: getting the ramp from storage, setting it in place, checking it, moving your wife across it, and putting it away while someone stays with her.
Put that sequence on the day sheet before you buy. If one person cannot complete it safely, the missing person is part of the product decision.
Start with the actual doorway
Measure the route the wheelchair will use, not just the height of the step. Write down the doorway width, threshold height, landing depth, and the clear space at the top and bottom. Note which way the door swings and whether a storm door must be held open.
Look for anything that changes the approach: a turn near the threshold, soft ground, uneven pavement, a porch rail, or a door lip that catches the small front wheels. Check the route with the wheelchair that will actually be used. A ramp that fits the opening may still leave no room to line up straight.
If a therapist or equipment professional has already watched your wife transfer or use the wheelchair, ask that person to review the doorway measurements and the planned ramp. Ask what must be checked before the first assisted trip. Do not rely on a product photo to answer a question about your doorway.
Compare the setup job
Ask each seller to explain the setup in plain steps. Where does the top edge rest? What keeps the ramp from shifting? Does it fold, telescope, or separate into sections? Which parts must be lifted? Where do fingers go while it opens and closes?
Then ask for the weight of every piece, not just the total weight. A ramp described as portable may still be too awkward for you to carry through a narrow hall or place while keeping your balance.
Write down who will do each part:
Bring ramp from storage: ______
Open or assemble it: ______
Check the top and bottom contact: ______
Hold the door: ______
Stay with your wife: ______
Move the wheelchair: ______
Remove and store the ramp: ______
If your name appears on every line, stop and test whether those jobs can happen in that order. Your wife cannot be left sitting near an open doorway while you carry equipment from another room.
Ask for a trial that matches real use
A showroom floor does not show what happens at your threshold. Ask whether the ramp can be tried at the house before the purchase becomes final. Get the return conditions in writing, including who pays to take it back and what condition it must be in.
For the first setup, use the empty wheelchair or another safe load specified by the seller. Check whether the ramp rocks, slides, bows, blocks the door, or leaves a wheel-catching gap. Do not make your wife the test load.
If the ramp must be secured to the house, ask whether it is still considered portable and who is expected to install the hardware. Ask whether drilling, anchors, or changes to the threshold are required. A product that depends on permanent work is a different job from a ramp you set down and remove.
Compare the crossing, not just the ramp
Ask who is expected to control the wheelchair on the ramp. The answer may depend on the chair, the doorway, your wife's position, and your own strength. Get a demonstration using the same type of chair and the same direction of travel you expect at home.
Notice where you would stand. Check whether you can keep both hands where they are needed while opening the door or managing a turn. If the instructions assume a second person, write that person onto the day sheet. Do not treat the second set of hands as optional.
Ask what the maker says about powered wheelchairs, scooters, wheel locks, anti-tip parts, and occupied use. Check the combined weight of your wife, the chair, cushions, bags, and attached equipment against the product instructions. Do not guess from the wheelchair weight alone.
Plan for rain, darkness, and a delayed ride
The easy test often happens in daylight on a dry surface. The real return home may happen after supper, in rain, or when you are tired.
At 6 p.m., check who turns on the outside light, clears the landing, and brings the ramp out. If the ramp surface is wet, follow the maker's instructions about use and cleaning. Decide where your wife waits while you check the route.
At 2 a.m., an unexpected trip may require a different handoff. If you cannot set up the ramp and stay with your wife at the same time, call the person or service already named on the sheet. Write the number beside the task. A name without a reachable number is not a handoff.
Ask each seller how the ramp should be stored and whether water, dirt, or temperature affects it. Check whether the chosen storage place blocks a hall, requires stairs, or puts the ramp behind other equipment. Time how long it takes to retrieve and set up without rushing.
Make the seller name the repair route
Before paying, ask what happens if a hinge sticks, a latch breaks, a surface strip lifts, or a section will not lock. Find out who decides whether the ramp is unsafe to use, where repairs happen, and whether you must ship or transport it.
Ask which parts can be replaced and how you identify the exact model. Keep the instructions, model information, receipt, and seller contact together. Put the storage location on the day sheet so a relief person can find both the ramp and its instructions.
Use one comparison sheet
Give each ramp one column. Compare the same facts: doorway fit, clear approach, number and weight of pieces, setup steps, required hardware, occupied-use instructions, wheelchair compatibility, return terms, repair route, storage place, and number of people needed.
Circle any answer that depends on you lifting an awkward piece, leaving your wife alone, or remembering an unwritten step. Those are not small inconveniences. They are parts of the care job that still need an owner.
Choose only after you can write the full route from her usual seat, through the doorway, into the vehicle, and back again. If the ramp works only when a second person is present, put that handoff on the day sheet before the first trip. For help finding local organizations to call about equipment or caregiver support, use Local Help for Husband Caregivers.