After the hospital
Her Shoes Were Bought for the Woman She Was: Fit a Walking Shoe to the Way She Walks Now
Check the heel, the sole, the closure you can manage one-handed, and the width of her foot at the end of the day before anything else gets bought.
The shoes she wears to the car and the shoes she wore before the hospital are probably not doing the same job. She now walks with a walker or your arm, and her steps are shorter, slower, and sometimes uneven. A shoe that fit her in the store years ago can slide, catch the floor, or rub a heel without anyone noticing until the skin shows it. This piece covers how to size and check a walking shoe for the way she moves now, before you buy another pair.
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Measure her feet at the end of the day
Have her sit with both feet flat, or stand her up if she can, and measure at the end of the day when feet are at their largest. Measure length from heel to longest toe and width across the ball of the foot. Use the bigger foot. Write the numbers on the day sheet so the next purchase starts from measurements, not memory.
Check the heel and the sole before the toe
A shoe can fit at the toe and still fail at the heel. Press the back of the shoe. It should hold its shape and not fold inward. A firm heel counter keeps the foot from sliding forward on each step. Turn the shoe over and look at the tread. A smooth, flat sole on tile or wood is a slip waiting to happen. Look for a grooved or textured tread that still grips when the floor is damp.
Pick the closure you can manage at 6 a.m.
Laces work if she can tie them, or if you can tie them in ten seconds every time without thinking. If not, a wide hook-and-loop strap or a stable slip-on with a back that stays up may be easier. Test the closure while you hold the walker with one hand. If you cannot do it one-handed, the shoe is too hard for the daily routine even if it fits well on paper.
Walk her in it before you decide
Have her walk the length of the hall with the walker or your arm. Watch three things: whether the heel lifts, whether the toes catch on a floor edge, and whether the sole stays flat on each step. Use the surface she uses most, not the store carpet. Ask about the return rule before you buy, and keep the receipt with the day sheet until she has worn the pair for a week.
When to ask her doctor or therapist
If one foot looks or feels different from the other, if a shoe that fit last month now pinches, or if she catches her toes more often, mention it to her doctor or physical therapist. Those are their questions to answer. Your job is to notice the change and bring the shoe to the appointment.